0 weeks ago
Samvidha Dasika✨ ( @aroadtothere_ )
For 5 years of my life since I was 13 I’d been scared to identify myself as a bisexual. I would bring it up as a joke in front of my boyfriend and friends and all of them would laugh it off like “oh haha theres no way you’re bisexual” or “its all in your head, you have a boyfriend” or “your parents will kill you”. Ive lived by these notions for the most of my life which conditioned my head to deny who I am.
A few years later I met a friend and in a conversation, she mentioned that she was only into girls. She sounded so confident about herself and didn’t care about what other people thought. All she would say is, its normal. I am who I am and that’s all.
That brought a sense of relief to me as well and I accepted who I was and stopped caring about what others would think because this is MY life. The confidence that I showed and potrayed made me feel so good about myself and I have only one person to thank.
This year I decided to tell my mom, and of course, coming from a typical orthodox family, she didn’t take it very well, but once I sat her down and told her the reality and that theres nothing I could do about it, she started to widen her thought process.
Basically, what im trying to say is, no matter what the stigma is around you, you are who you are and honestly who you are is pretty cool. You’ve people who love you and accept you. You cant change who you are, so you might as well accept it. I see you, and more power to you, you're amazing.
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